And please, don't anyone tell me that "Cheating doesn't mean you're not committed to your marriage." That is utter bullshit. If you're committed to your marriage- to your relationship... You are NOT going to cheat.
There is no justifying cheating. It is never okay to cheat. If your significant other cheats, it doesn't mean it's okay for you to cheat too. Two wrongs definitely and most obviously don't make a right.
Cheating is selfish. Cheating always hurts someone.
If you can't stay faithful and COMMITTED to your relationship- Leave. Grow a pair, be an adult and get out of your relationship. You want to be with someone else and also stay with your SO? Well, you can't always have your cake and eat it too.
Reverse the roles. Do you want to be cheated on? Does anyone ever really want to be cheated on? C'mon, noone is honestly going to say, "I would love to have the person I'm dating/ married to to cheat on me". Seriously?
If you're offended by this post, then quite honestly.. You probably shouldn't read my blog because we surely don't share that much in common as far as Morales. We can never be friends. I refuse to associate or be friends with someone who is going to cheat on their spouse.
I know deployment is hard for some. But Cheating?
"I didn't mean to, it just happened". Bullshit. If you feel tempted- why in the Hell would you put yourself in a situation to where it could happen? Own up- you suck, end of story!
If you feel "Lonely" and you need company- Go to Fleet & Family- or the like for your husband's branch. GET HELP. OR just tell your significant other that you can't handle a long distance relationship and that you need someone catering to your physical needs all the time. Because isn't that what it really is? YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE OTHER NOT BEING THERE PHYSICALLY.
Again, If you cheat. You suck.
That's my take on it.
I agree 100%.
ReplyDeleteI couldn't agree more!!!!! I was cheated on in my first marriage. I HATE cheaters!!!!! It's NOT an "accident", it didn't "just happen". Your an adult and you have FULL control of your feeling and motions...if you cheat, it is every bit intentional!
ReplyDeleteI've known some wives that have cheated and it completely disgusts me! I am NO longer friends with "said" people!
OMG - You just hit the nail on the head girl! I love the line "Own up- you suck, end of story!" BAHAHAHA Some people just don't understand the level of commitment this a marriage/REAL relationship calls for!
ReplyDeleteI couldn't agree more with this....my husbands best friend is currently drawing up papers cause his wife is cheating on him...I think its the lowest form of actions anyone can do...grow up and get a divorce instead of causing the pain you will by cheating...sorry for rambling but I dispise cheaters....good blog =]
ReplyDeleteI feel the exact same way!! DO NOT put yourself in a situation where it can lead to cheating!!
ReplyDeletehow hard is this to grasp?!!??
Totally and completely agree!
ReplyDeleteLove it!! 100% love it!! As far as I am concerned you are aware of the difficulties of a military relationship from day one!! You should never fall back on your marriage commitment regardless of a military marriage or not - but we are all aware of the possibilities of a deployment and lonely nights..
ReplyDelete