tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4085383763299362070.post7948439481419425582..comments2024-02-14T12:45:23.558-05:00Comments on The Journey of a Navy Wife: Blame YourselfChristinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11780680370762382386noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4085383763299362070.post-12941695389606149322010-05-19T15:46:51.958-04:002010-05-19T15:46:51.958-04:00I love this post and as a future Army Wife and I c...I love this post and as a future Army Wife and I completely and fully agree with you! :) It is women like us who rock this world. :)<br />Thanks for being awesome!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16919079134282687094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4085383763299362070.post-55410087306821033352010-05-19T12:20:54.349-04:002010-05-19T12:20:54.349-04:00I like this. =)I like this. =)Skinnie Piggiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05908960159689040912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4085383763299362070.post-23528534997739641682010-03-09T11:50:06.618-05:002010-03-09T11:50:06.618-05:00Hey - LOL you dont know me and vice versa lol but ...Hey - LOL you dont know me and vice versa lol but I came across your blog via the "Opsec" stuff from the FB group of WA state Navy wives - (I used to be one lol and still have friends who are!) Anyway - I wanted to let you know I agree with MANY of the statements you make and I applaud you for being one of the straight up supportive wives!!! There are good and bad on both sides of military marriage - and while mine did not work out - I have GREAT respect for service members and their families! Kudos to you!!! ^5's and all kinds of good karma!!!Bambi Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11154398108663677139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4085383763299362070.post-24893049936691967612010-02-07T17:46:46.472-05:002010-02-07T17:46:46.472-05:00I have to agree with you to an extent. Now if some...I have to agree with you to an extent. Now if someone posts they are angry with their spouse,boyfriend,fiance,etc.because they are gone for a birthday,anniversary,etc. because the military sent them away I think that is being upset for someone just doing their job and thats wrong. However, I think there is nothing wrong with getting angry,upset or irritated with some of the stressors of being a military wife such as missing holidays, anniversarys, birth of a child etc. because that is a normal response. I just dont think you should be mad at the person serving their country.<br />I am a navy wife and have been through 2 deployments and my husband just got home from his 2nd deployment and was back for a month and was sent to Haiti. We only had 3 hours for him to pack and say good bye. He has been gone a month and I don't know when he will be back. I was mad,very mad.Not at my husband but the Navy because I just got my husband back. But I got over it and am coping as always. I have 2 children and my husband has missed all my sons birthdays (all 4) and the birth of our daughter as well as most of our wedding anniversaries (married almost 6 years). However, I never blame my husband even when he tells me its all his fault. I tell him I am proud him and will always be state side waiting for him because I love him dearly.Tashiahttp://www.facebook.com/people/Tashia-Insley/1073013606noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4085383763299362070.post-3676240706621359432010-01-20T00:01:47.085-05:002010-01-20T00:01:47.085-05:00I think that a lot of people just need some place ...I think that a lot of people just need some place to put all the blame of their frustrations that their husband/boyfriend IS gone a lot of the time. The military is the obvious choice. It doesn't make it right, but it is a reality that I know I'm guilty of. I've said that I "hate" the Navy for stationing my boyfriend across the country. He lets me rant, let's me breathe, then tells me that I knew he was a sailor when I met him, and that this is the life he wants to live. By this time all my frustrations have been spewed out, and I agree. So while actively blaming the military for all the problems in a relationship is wrong, I don't think that we can always stop ourselves from blaming, at least some of the time! <br /><br />Ps. I found this blog on the Navy Wives Girlfriends Fiancee's group on Facebook too!Mrs. Squirrelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05093555549686587749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4085383763299362070.post-88341956033606213562010-01-19T16:42:19.466-05:002010-01-19T16:42:19.466-05:00Thank you for reading my blog :D
I'm glad to ...Thank you for reading my blog :D<br /><br />I'm glad to see someone agrees with me. I posted this on Facebook, and wow... who knew so many people would actually get offended by this!<br /><br />Thank you again!Christinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11780680370762382386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4085383763299362070.post-70577117448810953212010-01-18T21:15:42.470-05:002010-01-18T21:15:42.470-05:00I agree Christina. I had the advantage of growing...I agree Christina. I had the advantage of growing up as a military brat. We moved my entire life for my dad's career. My fiance got deployed 4 months after we started dating. While I knew it was going to happen, I just didn't expect it to happen so soon. But, we're going strong. We email every day and talk every week and he'll be home in March. I'm a firm believer of home is where the military sends you.<br /><br />I love your blog btw. I found in on facebook on the navy wives page. :-) I'm looking forward to more!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06520565936687108506noreply@blogger.com